Thursday, September 24, 2009

Best Story


An old man lived alone in Minnesota. He wanted to spade his potato garden, but it was very hard work.His only son, who would have helped him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and mentioned his situation.


Dear Son, I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won't be able to plant my potato garden this year.I hate to miss doing the garden, because your mother always loved planting time. I'm just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. If you were here, all my troubles would be over. I know you would dig the plot for me, if you weren't in prison.


Love, Dad


Shortly, the old man received this telegram:"For Heaven's sake, Dad, don't dig up the garden!! That's where I buried the GUNS!" At 4a.m.


The next morning,A dozen FBI agents and local police officers showed up and dug up the entire garden without finding any guns.Confused, the old man wrote another note to his son telling him what happen ed, and asked him what to do next. His son's reply was: "Go ahead and plant your potatoes, Dad. It's the best I could do for you from here."


- Moral of the Story


NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN THE WORLD,IF YOU HAVE DECIDED TO DO SOMETHING DEEP FROM YOUR HEART, YOU CAN DO IT.IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT MATTERS NOT WHERE YOU ARE OR WHERE THE PERSON IS.

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Mother

Who is a Mother ?

A Mother has so many things to do, From washing, ironing, cleaning to tying a shoe.She scrubs, she mends, she cooks and sews, She bathes the children and washes their clothes, When they forget to wash their faces clean, And their clothes are the muddiest you've ever seen, Who repairs the clothes and scrubs them like new? Of course, that is what a Mother will do.

Who becomes the doctor or the nurse when they are ill, Applying a bandage or giving them a pill? Who becomes a teacher when a child has homework? She must never her duty shirk. Who becomes a detective to find a toy or a book? For missing things she must look and look? Who becomes a listener to every heartache, to every accomplishment that a child makes? Who scolds their children when they are naughty, or remind them of God when they are to haughty? Who tends her family with love and patience, too? Of course that is what a Mother will do.

Why we need a Mother

There are times when only a Mother's love can understand our tears, Can soothe our disappoints and calm all of our fears.

There are times when only a Mother's love can share the joy we feel When something we've dreamed about quite suddenly is real.

There are times when only a Mother's faith can help us on life's way And inspire in us the confidence we need from day to day.

For a Mother's heart and a Mother's faith and a Mother's steadfast love Were fashioned by the Angels and sent from God above...Mother is a Priceless Gift from God

My Miracle Mother
Mom, I look at you and see a walking miracle. Your unfailing love without limit, your ability to soothe my every hurt the way you are on duty, unselfishly, every hour, every day, makes me so grateful that I am yours, and you are mine. With open arms and open heart, with enduring patience and inner strength, you gave so much for me, sometimes at your expense. You are my teacher, my comforter, my encourager, appreciating all, forgiving all.

Sometimes I took you for granted, Mom, but I don’t now, and I never will again. I know that everything I am today relates to you and your loving care. I gaze in wonder as I watch you being you— my miracle, my mother.

Improve Your Acting Skills

Ten Ways to Improve Your Acting Skills

Are you looking for great ways to improve your current acting skills? Believe it or not, you could probably fill rooms of your home or apartment with books that can teach you how to be a better actor and improve upon the acting skills that you already posses. Instead of reading each of those books and wasting your valuable time, I have compiled a list of ten ways you can improve your acting skills rather easily and quickly.

1- The first thing you must always do is read your script and know it like the back of your hand. You must know your lines and the lines of your fellow actors so you are not caught off guard when it is your turn.

2- Once you know your lines, you must then be an active listener. You should always be giving the director and your audience the impression that you are listening to everything going on. Also, don't be too quick to blurt out your lines just to prove that you know them. You are trying to convince people that you are having a real conversation, so make it seem real.

3- This one might be one of the simplest, but hardest ones yet, Be brave! Always be looking for a job that might cause you to leave your comfort zone and stretch your abilities. This is one of the best ways to grow and improve yourself as an actor.

4- You must learn to breathe properly. You should be practicing breathing techniques for at least 20 minutes per day. This will help you fight the stress associated with an acting career and also help you fight stage fright.

5- Always be professional! Make sure that you show up on time or if possible, early.

6- Avoid talking ill of your fellow actors. Those who put down or insult other actors, especially those that you work closely with usually end up blaming the others for their own short comings and fail to take advantage of areas they need to improve upon.

7- Keep your cool, even if everyone else isn't. If you do, your performance will definitely stand out from everyone else's.

8- Practice, practice, practice. The more you practice acting, the better you will get.

9- Not only work to improve your acting ability but work hard to make your fellow actors look as good as possible. This will enhance your own performance and help you develop much quicker.

10- Learn how to accept and deal with rejection and harsh criticism. Just keep in mind that a lot of actors get rejected for most jobs most of the time. It is simply part of the business.

I hope these steps help you get a general idea of what you need to start doing today to become a better actor. Start working on them today and immediately see results that will benefit you greatly.

Acting - Things you should know

TIMING

Ability "to move and speak in precise manner at right moment for particular impact; pacing of action

RHYTHM

Ability to understand and utilize the rhythmic expression of the play - dictated by script, director, other actors, type of play

STYLE

Ability to absorb and produce particular way of presentation; unified form of any play dictated by director's vision, company agreement; conventions of particular type of play, particular period of theatre

PACE

Ability to regulate speed of delivery and speed of action - dictated by dramatic potential

ATMOSPHERE

Ability to create atmosphere - self-belief so that audience believe (Stanislavski - if, imagination

INTERACTION

Communication with, and reaction to other actors; identification with relationships within roles with other characters

CHARACTERISATION

Ability to create a believable character within a role - through analysis, understanding, discussion, improvisation, belief, faith, living the part (Stanislavski - action, imagination, faith and a sense of truth, emotion memory; threshold of subconscious)

EMOTIONAL IMPACT

Ability to feel right emotions within the role, and communicate them to audience (Stanislavki - fundamental of system)

FOCUS

Ability to hold attention of actors and audience, and to direct attention of audience to specific persons or areas of stage (Stanislavski - circles of attention)

SUSTAIN

Ability to sustain a role through an entire play; to sustain momentum, mood, atmosphere, pace as required.

GENEROSITY

Ability to offer something to play off to others; ability to allow focus to be with other actors

STILLNESS

Ability to show thoughts and emotions without movement (Stanislavski – dramatic inaction)

SPATIAL AWARENESS

Ability to create space around self and other actors; positioning - in relation to each other/to audience; physical movement on stage; utilization of props or set

BREATH CONTROL

Ability to control breath for vocal projection; for physical control of energy and use of voice

STAMINA

Ability "to maintain energy, sustain role or momentum

STRENGTH

Ability to maintain stamina, fitness for physical and vocal control; for emotional control - carrying it through (emotional tension/sensation is physically draining)

RELAXATION

Ability to use voice and body without damage; to allow emotions to come through within character .at points of high tension (Stanislavski - relaxation of muscles; threshold of subconscious)

CONTROL

Ability to have power over voice, body; relaxation and suppleness of body; over scene; over audience response (Stanislavski - communion, adaptation)

COMMUNICATION

Ability to be in communication with other actors; with audience (Stanislavski communion, adaptation)

PHYSICAL

Flexibility - characterization; use of positions; type of walk, limp, injury; how to hold body
Versatility - able to adapt postures to different characterizations; move body in variety of ways
Adaptability - adjust -for character, to other actors, to audience, to set, to stage (differs in different theatres)
Agility - body easily able to adopt any required posture

Good Presentation Skills

The Eight Points of Good Presentation Skills

Good presentation skills are cultivated. While some people do indeed have the talent for speaking in public, for you to acquire good presentation skills is not an impossible feat to achieve. In fact, it is necessary for you to have good presentation skills if you want to get far ahead in your career.

There are actually eight points that characterize exemplary presentation skills. If you have already had the pleasure of listening to a good public speaker, it would be easy for you to identify them.

These eight points are:

1. A good opening. Knowing how to make a good opening is part of having good presentation skills. A good opening has two functions. First, it grabs the attention of the audience. Second, it states the purpose of the presentation, what the speaker aims to achieve with it.

2. A logical structure. Good presentation skills involve knowing how to organize a presentation so that it flows smoothly and logically. A logical structure keeps the audience in tune with what you are saying. The quickest way to lose the attention of the audience is to be disorganized with the structure of your speech.

3. Relevant key points. Determining relevant key points is another characteristic of having good presentation skills. The key points of your presentation are what most of your audience will remember about it. Make sure that your key points are clear and well-emphasized.

4. Conciseness. Nobody loves to listen to long-winded speeches. Therefore, part of having good presentation skills is knowing just how long your presentation should be. This is so your audience would not end up being bored with the sheer length of it.

5. Use of visual aids. Words tend to slip through the audience’s mind. Therefore, use powerful visual aids to reinforce whatever message that you wish to convey. After all, a single picture can paint a thousand words. This is where a good PowerPoint slide show comes in.

6. Use of speaker notes. A speaker with good presentation skills knows that the fast way to cut the connection he or she has with the audience is reading directly from the PowerPoint slide show. Using speaker notes will guide you through your presentation without losing your rapport with your audience.

7. Ample rehearsal. A speaker with good presentation skills knows how important it is to rehearse the presentation before actually going on stage to speak. If your presentation is well rehearsed, you will look more professional and more competent before your audience.

8. A good closing. As much as a good opening will grab the attention of the audience and state the purpose of the presentation, a good closing will leave a lasting impression of what you have just talked about with your audience.

These are the eight points of having good presentation skills. Remember, having good presentation skills is not something a person is born with. These skills are something that you can easily acquire and cultivate but must continuously hone

Fear of Public Speaking

Ways to successfully tame the fear of public speaking

If you develop cold feet while on stage, if words don’t seem to come of your mouth and if you suddenly get excessively nervous, chances are you’re suffering from the fear of public speaking. For most people, the fear of public speaking is one of the largest obstacles to career growth in an organization.

There is a way out

Public speaking need not be a harrowing experience anymore. You can now effortlessly speak on any topic of choice provided you know how to overcome your fear of public speaking. There are many programs designed these days to help people overcome issues like stage fright and facing a large audience.

They are as human as you are!

It’s important to remember that when you are on stage you are essentially speaking to humans – just like you! Trembling legs, shaky voices and a lack of confidence is something many orators have learnt to overcome. When they could successfully overcome their fear of public speaking so can you!

Don’t form preconceived notions

Most of us perceive successful public speakers as being witty and smart with loads of polished appeal. That is far from the truth. We perceive them that way because their fear of public speaking is never brought to the fore. It’s all about the way you project yourself vis-à-vis the way you actually are!

Keep it simple!

Follow the KISS principle – Keep It Simple and Short. You’ll never go wrong! Fact is, most famous public speakers don’t go on and on about a topic. They break it up with interesting anecdotes, jokes and incidents. That’s what helps also in overcoming the fear of public speaking. Try and stick to two or at the most three main points. Elaborate on them and illustrate with interesting examples.

Why am I speaking?

The goal of every public speech is to accomplish a certain objective in the end. Many people who have the fear of public speaking think it is sufficient to just have a good topic and sound interesting. That’s not entirely true. You also need to have a purpose in mind. You shouldn’t set out making a speech thinking you need to impress the audience. No matter how good you become or how much you overcome your fear of public speaking you can never ever get 100% approval from the audience. The trick to success lies in accepting this fact first!

Just be yourself – and the world will like you!

Many of us perceive successful public speakers as being eloquent and charming with certain distinct attributes. That’s not true. Most famous public speakers have not only overcome their fear of public speaking but have remained true to themselves. They are just being themselves when they talk on stage! That’s what makes their speeches more likeable.

Don’t boast

People who flatter themselves and indulge in puffery almost always remain unpopular. The same goes for public speaking too. One of the ways to overcome the fear of public speaking is to remain humble and have a sense of humor. It makes the speech livelier.

Three Mindsets behind the Fear of Public Speaking

The actor George Jessel was known in his lifetime as the Toastmaster General of the United States because of his frequent stints at hosting and acting as a master of ceremonies in various affairs, both political and showbiz. He once said that, “The human brain starts working the moment you are born and never stops until you stand up to speak in public.” That is a very apt way to describe the fear of public speaking. To a lot of people, nothing is more frightening than the prospect of speaking in front of a crowd.

However, not many people are aware of the fact that it is they themselves who are causing their own fear of public speaking. More often than not, the fear of public speaking is something that the mind creates on its own. It becomes a kind of self-fulfilling mantra; once the mind conceives of it, it starts to believe in it.

So, if a person has a fear of public speaking, most likely he or she is only afraid because of a certain mindset that he or she has come to have. What are the mindsets that cause people to have a fear of public speaking? Here are three:

1. The mindset that public speaking is difficult. Sometimes, the fear of public speaking stems from the mindset that a person may have, which is that public speaking is a difficult task and that should be left only to those who are capable of doing it. And so, the people who have this mindset shy away from opportunities of speaking in public because they think they are not capable of doing it.

2. The mindset that public speaking is for smart people. There are times that the fear of public speaking comes from the notion of some people that in public speaking, it is essential for them to appear smart. Certainly, the need to look smart adds to a person’s credibility as a public speaker, but sometimes it is taken too seriously. As a result, they convey far too much information than what is necessary in their presentation, they mimic other public speakers instead of just being themselves, or they brag about being an expert on the topic they are handling instead of showing humility before their audience.

3. The mindset that in public speaking, the audience needs to be controlled. In some cases, a person’s fear of public speaking rises from the belief that his or her audience needs to be controlled as the speech or the presentation is delivered. The thing is, the members of the audience will fidget and talk among themselves no matter what the speaker does. The speaker will never be able to control his or her audience; what the speaker can control are his or her own thoughts, behaviour and visual aids.

Public speaking is a challenging, but nonetheless a rewarding and fulfilling task. However, there are a number of mindsets that lead people to have a fear of public speaking. To overcome the fear of public speaking, these mindsets must be overcome as well.

Presentation Skills

5 Ways to Develop Presentation Skills

One of the foremost criterions of developing good presentation skills is to know the objective of the presentation. Presentations are, typically, given to inform, educate, persuade, ideate, or to train. After you identify the goal, you can start developing your presentation skills.
Here are 5 Ways that will help you develop your skills of presentation.

1. Confidence is the Key

Before anything, develop a certain degree of confidence about your own abilities. Don’t go out there with the feeling that everyone is your enemy and is just waiting to rip you apart.
You can also build a certain degree of confidence by being well prepared for the presentation. Don’t leave any facet out, and make it a point to have a script that is tightly edited. Even if you don’t make all the information at your disposal, a part of the presentation, make sure that you have an in-depth understanding of the topic.

2. Be Engaging and Do Not Lecture

Develop an interesting presentation. This is a significant aspect of developing presentation skills. Learn to interact with your audience while giving a presentation. Don’t just stand and dump your
data on them.

Be compelling enough, so that the people hear your presentation, without giving you a bored look or without showing disinterest in the presentation. It’s important to understand that, you don’t know more than the audience, and even if you think you do, you are giving the presentation for their benefit and not yours.

3. Knowing Your Audience

Make it a point to know your audience. Meaning, you must know the basic characteristics of the audience. You must also know the number of senior people that would be a part of the audience, or what would be the initial attitude of the people vis-à-vis the topic.
If the people in front of you are intelligent and well-informed, you must be prepared accordingly and try to mold your presentation skills accordingly. Each presentation is different, and needs a few common skill sets in conjunction with skill sets that have been developed for a particular audience.

4. Keep it Short and Simple

Don’t go in for a lengthy presentation. A simple and short presentation does not mean a presentation that falls short of expectations or does not provide important information.
If you try and integrate simplicity, you will develop an orderliness, and will also know what to select and in what amount. You will also become better organized, and not meander away from the topic.

5. Anticipation

You can develop presentation skills by learning to anticipate any eventuality, especially with respect to the questions asked. If you do not learn to expect the unexpected, you might just lose your credibility in the process.

Always identify the questions or problems that your might face, and form an adequate response for the same

Stage fear

Afraid to speak on stage?

Most people get jittery when they have to speak on stage. They suddenly seem to suffer from stage fright. This is also often a deterrent to socializing and enhancing office contacts. To overcome these limitations a public speaking training program can do a world of good. Most of these public speaking training sessions focus on enhancing the confidence levels of a person and eliminating stage fright.

Releasing excess energy

Many times in a public speaking training session you will find that the trainer advises you to do some light exercises before the speech. A short and light run or some regular punches on the boxing bag can actually free up all your excess energy. The fidgetiness and hyperactivity can vanish by doing such light exercise forms. Why is it great? These exercises taught at a public speaking training program make you stress free but not so laid-back that you end up messing up your speech.

Don’t let those faces intimidate you

Usually when a person stands up on stage and the lights come on, the first thing that greets him is the stare of a thousand faces. It can be an intimidating experience. What most public speaking training programs aim to do is to help you think of these faces as your friends rather than a series of judgmental people sitting across you. They say the best way to conquer your fears is to face them. That’s why proper eye contact with the audience is critical. In any public speaking training session the trainer will help the person to initiate eye contact with the people in the room while giving a speech.

What eye contact really means

Most public speaking training programs will essentially help you differentiate between the glaring eye contact and the subtle glance that you give to an audience. The second approach has proven to be far more effective than demanding a direct eye contact with each person in the audience. It can be intimidating for the audience as well. Thus most public speaking training programs say that a regular sweeping gaze across the entire audience can help get their attention much better than direct eye contact.

Giving presentations impromptu

Most of us don’t have enough time to actually prepare for a public speech or presentation. Our boss may have asked us to give a presentation the very next day. In such cases having guidance from a public speaking training program can do a world of good. Such programs help you nail a presentation effectively within just a single day! By having the main points in mind, one can elaborate on these and deliver a flawless presentation without hassles.

Performing select actions

There are certain actions which subtly distinguish a successful public speaker from an amateur one. We may not notice them consciously but a public speaking training program can certainly point out these actions to us. These public speaking training sessions seek to repeatedly let the student practice these actions until it becomes almost like a reflex action which comes naturally

Public Speaking Training is Important

5 Reasons Why Public Speaking Training is Important

Public speaking training is important as there are various occasions in your professional or social life when you might be called on to speak publicly. You need to do it right and you need to do it effectively. If you are not confident about your own ability in this regard, then it makes sense to take public speaking training.

There are quite a few people who think that public speaking qualities are ingrained in a person and training won’t help matters at all. However, it is the confidence and ability that is a part of the person and not public speaking in general.

The 5 Reasons:

1. Alleviating Your Fears

Many people have stage fright. They are fearful of speaking to a crowd of people. They are frightened of all the attention that would be on them and hence they are not comfortable with the aspect of public speaking.

An effective public speaking training course would help people allay those fears effectively. This is one of the most important components of any such course. Once the fear factor is minimized, persons can effectively give a speech without faltering or losing faith in their abilities.

2. Help Build Confidence

The inherent lack of confidence is something that always acts as a deterrent to effective public speaking. Such courses, help in building up your confidence. This is done by enhancing a person’s specific skill sets to generate maximum impact.

A person is shown how to maintain eye contact with the audience, and the various aspects of voice modulation. This will go a long way in making the person confident about his/her abilities.
One of the more important aspects of confidence building is to have content that is relevant to the topic in question. Moreover, speakers should also be comfortable with the content and all that is asked from them.

3. Will Help Develop an Individualistic Style

The best part about being a part of any public speaking training program is the fact that, your individual characteristics, abilities, and qualities will be used to create a unique public speaking style, which will suit your requirements.

A person’s own exclusive style will make, him/her a good orator. An effective training program, will not ask the participants to copy a style, but help them build a whole new distinctive style, which will be their own, and not borrowed from somebody else.

4. Will Introduce You to the Intimate Facets

There are various minute facets of public speaking that you might not know about. Things like creating a great first impression, when to give a pause, how to be interactive, the small but critical mistakes, etc are all brought to a person’s attention in a training program related to public speaking.

A person should know how and when to use humor in the speech. This would keep the audience interested and attentive. You can only know about these facets through a public speaking training course.

5. Giving a Platform for Practice

In the end, its practice that makes one perfect! You can practice in front of a mirror, but nothing compares to practicing in front of an audience. Most classroom training programs allow you to do just that, thus making it comfortable for you to speak in front of a real audience, when the time comes.

You must be careful about choosing a training program that integrates all the reasons that we have talked about. Moreover, to have any success in public speaking training, it’s important to be interested in it.

There are many more reasons why you must join such a training program. A public speaking training program is definitely important

Public speaker's success

Any public speaker's success depends on the orator's ability to attract the audience's attention and further retain it for as much time as it is necessary to completely expound the necessary ideas. This simple objective is reachable only in case the following principles are observed.

1. The audience must be interested in the topic of the speech. To be memorized, the speech should appeal to each listener in the audience and therefore topicality is the primary principle that should be taken into account when preparing a speech. Therefore, each speech is prepared on the basis of the previously collected information about the preferences and interests of the target auditorium.

2. The orator must use his fascination to persuade the audience. He must believe unconditionally in the subject of his speech and in the same time he should expound his ideas as if they have just stricken his mind, despite the fact that the speech could be composed beforehand by the professional speechwriters. It is necessary to understand that the listener has a subtle perception of creativity and as soon as he will realize that the speaker does not believe in what he says or the idea is someone else's words, the interest will fade instantly.

3. Emotional background is an important constituent of every speech. It is necessary to maintain versatility during the process of speaking. The speaker must control rhythm, inflexion, pauses and accents. It is possible to keep the audience's attention only in case the orator is able to maintain its emotional alteration.

4. Gestures and mimics of the orator must be natural, although it is hard to formulate the universal advice in this case. However, it is possible to say with utmost certitude that hesitating speaker is given out by his body. Successful orator does not merely control the process of speaking, but also watches his gestures and mimics, remaining inwardly emancipated.

5. The orator must be sincere. Advanced techniques of public speaking and any other manipulations are worth nothing without sincerity.

Oration Tips Inspired by Frederick Douglass

Oration Tips Inspired by Frederick Douglass

Frederick Douglass spent the majority of his life reading, writing, and spreading the message of equality for all humanity. He harnessed the power of words to inspire the hearts and minds of people all over the world. Refined oratorical skills were one of his primary weapons against the oppressive, unjust forces in society. When Frederick Douglass was a teenager, he earned enough money to buy his first book, The Columbian Orator by Caleb Bingham. The Columbian Orator is a book about the art of oration, as well as a collection of great speeches throughout history. Not only did this book help Douglass learn how to read, but it also helped him become one of the greatest orators of all time. The following tips are tried and true lessons employed and perfected by Frederick Douglass.

PRONUNCIATION is the most important part of oration. The audience must understand the words you are saying.

Pay proper attention to accent, emphasis, and cadence. The simple question, Will you ride to town today? can mean 4 different things, depending on the placement of the emphasis.

Do not be monotonous. Vary your volume, intonation, and pitch.

Keep your voice at a natural volume. If you are naturally soft-spoken, do not resort to shrill yelling for the sake of volume.

Control facial expressions and body gestures to coincide with the mood of the speech. Do not appear stiff.

Believe what you are saying. It makes the oration more natural, and therefore more moving.

Make the best use of your natural voice. Do not try to make your voice something it is not.

In general, try to end each sentence louder than its beginning.

Oratory

“Oratory is the parent of liberty. By the constitution of things it was ordained that eloquence should be the last stay and support of liberty, and that with her she is ever destined to live, to flourish, and to die. It is to the interest of tyrants to cripple and debilitate every species of eloquence. They have no other safety. It is then, the duty of free states to foster oratory.”
-Henry Hardwicke

The power of the spoken word is undeniable. At all the great crisis and hinges in history, we find great speeches which swayed the outcome. Great speeches have motivated citizens to fight injustice, throw off tyranny, and lay down their life for a worthy cause. Words have drawn meaning out of tragedy, comforted those who mourn, and memorialized events with the dignity and solemnity they deserved. Words can move people to risk life and limb, shed tears, laugh out loud, recommit to virtue, change their life, or feel patriotic. By weaving and spinning words into great tapestries of art, a man can wield an almost god-like power. Of course, even the most malicious leaders have known this and sought diligently to hone this skill for nefarious purposes.

The power of speech can be used for good or evil and comes with great responsibility. Those who uphold virtue and goodness must be prepared to speak as masterfully as those who seductively and smoothly seek to convince the public to abandon its values and principles.

What is oratory?

“Not until human nature is other than what it is, will the function of the living voice-the greatest force on earth among men-cease. . . I advocate, therefore, in its full extent, and for every reason of humanity, of patriotism, and of religion, a more through culture of oratory and I define oratory to be the art of influencing conduct with the truth set home by all the resources of the living man.”
-Henry Ward Beecher

All oratory is public speaking, but not all public speaking is oratory. A teacher’s lecture, the best man’s speech, a political candidate’s stump speech, all of these things are not necessarily oratory, but they can be elevated to that status.

If public speaking is fast food, oratory is a gourmet meal. Not in pretentiousness or inaccessibility, but in the fact that oratory exists above the ordinary; it is prepared with passion, infused with creativity, and masterfully crafted to offer a sublime experience. Oratory seeks to convince the listener of something, whether that is to accept a certain definition of freedom or simply of the fact that the recently deceased was a person worthy to be mourned.

Oratory has been called the highest art for it encompasses all other disciplines. It requires a knowledge of literature, the ability to construct prose, and an ear for rhythm, harmony and musicality. Oratory is not mere speaking, but speech that appeals to our noblest sentiments, animates our souls, stirs passions and emotions, and inspires virtuous action. It is often at its finest when fostered during times of tragedy, pain, crisis, fear, and turmoil. In these situations it serves as a light, a guide to those who cannot themselves make sense of the chaos and look to a leader to point the way.

The history of oratory

Oratory in Greece

While the spoken word has been central to humanity since our species began to vocalize, it was in ancient Greece that speech would be raised to an art and true oratory would be born. A “golden age of eloquence” was ushered in by the statesman, general, and master orator Pericles. His funeral oration was perhaps the first great speech to be written and prepared for the public, and set the standard for all orations to come. Yet it is Demosthenes who is remembered as the greatest orator of Greece and perhaps all time. His speaking ability roused an Athenian people, deep in an apathetic slumber, to fight the threat Philip of Macedon posed to their liberty.
Yet the practice of oratory was not confined to the elites of Athenian society. Oratory was considered one of the highest arts, even a virtue. It was an essential part of every man’s education, the foundation upon which all other academic pursuits and disciplines were built. The mastery of oratory was considered an essential part of being a well-rounded man.

Oratory blossomed so splendidly and reached such an apex in ancient Greece because of its central function in public life. Athens’ democratic government marshaled every male citizen into politics. Any citizen could be called upon or inspired to sway others to the merits or criticisms of a particular piece of legislation. Laws were few and simple, giving judges considerable latitude in applying justice and lawyers great flexibility in making their case. The assembly, council, and courts were thus filled with vigorous debate and brilliant oratory.

Oratory in Rome

The art of oratory was slow in coming to Rome, but began to flourish when that empire conquered Greece and began to be influenced by its traditions. Roman oratory thrived in the courts, Comitia (assemblies where people debated the passing of laws), and Senate. Roman oratory borrowed much of its style from Greece, although there were differences. The Romans were less intellectual than the Greeks, their speeches less meaty and studded with more stylistic flourishes, stories, and metaphors. Nevertheless, Roman oratory was still a vibrant art and produced its own virtuoso: Cicero. Cicero’s “Catiline Orations” exposed a plot to overthrow the Roman government and did so with masterful eloquence and skill.

Great forensic oratory passed away with the fall of the Roman empire for “eloquence cannot exist under a despotic form of government. It can only be found in countries where free institutions flourish.” Tacitus, a century after Cicero’s death, lamented in the “Causes of the Corruption of Eloquence” that “the speakers of the present day are called pleaders, and advocates, and barristers, and anything rather than orators.” Lawyers began to hire claquers to attend their speeches and applaud generously, leading Pliny to note, “You may rest assured that he is the worst speaker who has the loudest applause.”

Modern Oratory

As democracy waned, so did great oratory. During the Middle Ages and the Renaissance, oratory was largely confined to the religious sphere. But it would be revived in the 18th centuries as France, England, and America created parliamentary bodies of government and the issues of liberty and freedom burned brightly in debates.

Great oratory began its current decline with the administration of Franklin Delano Roosevelt. Taking office during the Great Depression, FDR soon began his famous fireside chats. The country was demoralized and frightened, and Roosevelt’s warm, grandfatherly voice poured into millions of Americans homes, bringing a sense of comfort and security.

After FDR, Americans expected the same “folksy” speaking approach from all their presidents. Grand, eloquent speeches were considered a bit suspect, smacking of pretension and the lack of a common touch. Yet the reception and praise given to Barack Obama’s speeches suggest that there has been an untapped hunger among citizens for oratory that will inspire them and touch on their ideals (although the ancient Greeks would have criticized Obama’s speeches for sometimes emphasizing style over substance).

While a few great orators exist today, the art has generally fallen into disregard. When a man is called upon to speak, he often hems and haws, boring his audience to tears. It should not be so, gentlemen. It is time to resurrect and cultivate the art of oration.

Becoming a great orator

“Oratory is the masculine of music.” -John Atgeld

While most men will never summon troops into battle or debate a Congressional bill, every man should strive to be a great orator. Whether it is giving the best man speech, arguing against a policy at a city council, making a proposal at work, or giving a eulogy, you will be asked to publicly speak at least a few times in your life. Don’t be a man that shakes and shudders at that thought. Be a man who welcomes, nay, relishes the opportunity to move and inspire people with the power of his words. When a speaking opportunity arises, be the guy everyone thinks of first.
Being a great orator takes work. You must do the following thing if you wish to master the craft:
Practice, practice, practice:

“The history of the world is full of testimony to prove how much depends upon industry. Not an eminent orator has lived but is an example of it. Yet, in contradiction to all this, the almost universal feeling appears to be, that industry can affect nothing, that eminence is the result of accident, and that everyone must be content to remain just what he may happen to be. . . For any other art they would have served an apprenticeship and would be ashamed to practice it in public before they had learned it. . . But the extempore speaker, who is to invent as well as to utter, to carry on an operation of the mind, as well as to produce sound enters upon the work without preparatory discipline, and then wonders why he fails!”

The great myth perpetuated about public speaking is that talent in this area is inherent and inborn and cannot be learned. But our manly forbearers knew better. The great orators of the world from Cicero to Rockne practiced the art of oratory with resolute single-mindedness. Demosthenes exemplified this drive particularly well. As he was a child he was weak and awkward in both body and speech. But he determined that he would become a great oratory. Like TR, he built up his body with vigorous exercise. And he did a series of unusual tactics to hone his speaking skills. He would go to the ocean and attempt to recite orations louder than the waves. He then isolated himself in a cave to put full focus on the attainment of his goal. In order to avoid being tempted to leave the cave before he had mastered the art of oratory, he shaved half his head bald, knowing he would be subjected to ridicule were he to show his face in that state. In an attempt to improve his enunciation, he recited speeches while his mouth was filled with pebbles. He daily practiced his speaking in front of a mirror, improving any defect in his delivery or bodily movements. Finally, he had a nervous tic of raising one shoulder while he spoke. So to correct this, he hung a sword above that shoulder which would cut him were he to raise the shoulder. His work paid off handsomely; he became the one of the greatest orators of all time.

Be a virtuous man

“The speech of one who knows what he is talking about and means what he says-it is thought on fire.” -William Jennings Bryan

No grammatical garnish or oratorical flourish can add as much to a speech as good character. The very hint of hypocrisy will doom even the most eloquent speech. Conversely, when you are virtuous, honest, and earnestly committed to that which you speak of, this inner-commitment will tinge each word you utter with sincerity. The audience will feel the depth of your commitment and will listen far more intently then when they know it is mere claptrap.

Study all the arts

“In an orator, the acuteness of the logicians, the wisdom of the philosophers, the language almost of poetry, the memory of lawyers, the voice of tragedians, the gesture almost of the best actors, is required. Nothing therefore is more rarely found among mankind than a consummate orator.” -Cicero

In order to appeal to noblest and finest sentiments within your audience, your speeches must be filled with allusions to the greatest characters, events, and artistic expressions of history. Oratory thus combines all of the arts into one expression. You must keep abreast of current events and study human nature, religion, science, literature, and poetry. Read the newspaper. Watch great films. Read a least a paragraph of great literature each day. Do not simply frequent blogs and media sources that flatter your pre-existing view points! A great orator must be aware of the counterarguments your critics will raise and deftly address and defuse them before anyone else has the chance to.

Immerse yourself in great oratory

Take as your coaches and mentors all the great orators of the past. Read their speeches. Study the way in which they constructed their sentences, how the placement and arrangement of words builds rhythm, how the choice of words and stories creates vivid imagery. Examine how each line flows into the next, how the lines are distinct and yet together compose a cohesive, unified whole. Listen to great speeches. Listen to where the orators pause for effect, where their voice rises and falls. Ponder what makes certain sections electrifying and other parts captivating.

Want to be a speaker or an orator..?

...If you want to be a speaker or an orator, you certainly desire a very interesting thing, and certainly a very enjoyable job, if you can make a living out of it. Not only can you speak about something you are delighted in but you can encourage and build people! What a great feeling when you see someone's face smiling or when a person from the audience thanks you for being so comforting, delivering such good talks! Unfortunately some speakers are really boring. They are far from being good orator. Listening to such public speech is a waste of time for the public. I am sure that if you apply the 10 following tips, you are bound to become a great speaker, a talented orator!
TIP 1: Good Look
Be neat and clean, Hair should be neatly combed. Posture should convey an attentive attitude. Your personal appearance says much about you. When you are clean and well-groomed, others will likely conclude that you have self-respect, and they will be more inclined to listen to you.

TIP 2: Use of Microphone
What is said will benefit others only if it can be heard clearly. If they are to benefit from what is said, your audience must be able to hear clearly.
The Sound Equipment can amplify the volume of your voice many times and yet adequately maintain the quality and tone of your voice. Listeners will not have to strain to catch what is said. Instead, they can concentrate on the message.

TIP 3: Use of Visual Aids
Use pictures, maps, charts, or other objects to make important points of the lecture more vivid. A visual aid often makes a clearer or a more lasting impression on the mind than does just words.

TIP 4: Accurately Timed, Properly Proportioned
Give your talk within the allotted time, and use appropriate portions of your time for each part of the talk. Sufficient time needs to be allotted to each of the main points of instruction. It is important to end the meeting on time.

TIP 5: Make an Outline
To prepare an outline will give you more time to practice delivering the talk. Your presentations will be not only easier to give but more interesting to listen to and more motivating to your audience.

TIP 6: Be Fluent
A fluent person reads and speaks in such a manner that words and thoughts are easily understood, your words and thoughts flow smoothly. When delivery is fluent, speech is not jerky or painfully slow, and there is no stumbling over words or groping for thoughts.
When a speaker lacks fluency, the minds of the listeners may wander; wrong ideas may be conveyed. What is said may lack persuasiveness.

TIP 7: PUBLIC SPEECHER and ENTHUSIASM !
By animated delivery, give evidence of your strong feeling about the value of what you are saying.
ENTHUSIASM on your part will help to hold the interest of your listeners; it may also rouse them to action. If you are enthusiastic about what you say, your audience will be too.!

TIP 8: Visual Contact
Look at those to whom you are speaking, allowing your eyes to meet for a few seconds if that is acceptable locally. See individuals, not merely a group.
In many cultures, eye contact is viewed as an indication of interest in the person being addressed. It is also viewed as evidence that you speak with conviction.

TIP 9: Conversational Manner
Speak in a manner characteristic of everyday conversation but modified to fit your audience.

TIP 10: Develop a Theme
Go back to your theme, and mention it in various ways throughout your talk.
It unifies your presentation and helps the audience to understand what you say and to remember it